Our Team

Jane Halton - Founder + Coach

I have been working with couples for over 20 years, first as a wedding officiant and then as a premarital coach. I am a certified Prepare Enrich Facilitator (the premarital stuff) and a certified Professional Co-Active Coach (this involves a lot of unnecessary letters behind my name). Thanks to online coaching, I have done premarital coaching for couples all over the world. 

After doing premarital coaching with Young Hip and Married for nearly ten years, we decided to start a separate company focused solely on relationship coaching. Tada, Thrive Couples Coaching was born!  

I love working with couples in that newly (or nearly) engaged stage. Talking about your relationship, building skills and developing tools are key to a long lasting marriage. I love to help facilitate safe, helpful and skill-building conversations with couples. The best time to have these conversations is when your relationship is going well, to help prevent future problems. 

I’ve been married to my partner since 2005 and we live with our two teenagers in East Vancouver, BC. When I’m not running this business, I’m usually officiating weddings, swimming, recommending books I’ve read or out for a long walk.

CHARLIE Lake - COACH

I have been working with couples for nearly 20 years as a wedding officiant and Prepare Enrich Facilitator. I am also a Certified Life Coach. I use a non-invasive approach that focuses on listening and asking strategic questions. I am extremely personable and have a calm, kind, humourous, and non-judgemental disposition. I am passionate about helping couples (and individuals) live up to their fullest potential and strategically overcome any obstacles standing in their way. 

I invite members of the 2SLGBTQIA+ community to the front of the line. Also, couples raised in conservative fundamentalism, I’m here for it (and you)!

I live on Southern Vancouver Island, traditional territories of the Coast Salish. Specifically, the Esquimalt and Songhees nations. I am a queer, white settler who goes by she/her pronouns. 

When I’m not marrying or coaching couples, you can probably find me studying in a coffee shop trying desperately to finish my next degree. In my off time, I enjoy exploring nature with my amazing partner, road tripping to Tofino to surf with friends, listening to my favourite musicians play live, or making my next travel plans.  

ERIKA ENNS - COACH

I am a certified Prepare-Enrich coach and have been coaching with this program since 2020, in addition to my work as a wedding officiant, which I’ve been doing since 2015. I love working with couples as they walk towards their wedding day. It’s a great time to have really important conversations that help lay the groundwork for a strong marriage. I think coming to coaching is the bravest thing you can do and it’s one of the very best investments you can make in your marriage.


I’ve been married to my partner since 1997. We’re raising two great kids and currently watching them launch into the world and it’s weird! Looking back on all the stages of parenting, every one is significant, even this one as they are leaving. Every anniversary in our marriage is a milestone, even if it’s celebrated in the market getting groceries. 

When I’m not working, you can usually find me with my nose in a book. I love to spend time with my family and find new things to inspire me. I love writing and exploring new places, spaces and ideas. I’m curious and love a good conversation with a new friend.